Sirithiliel Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 So i've been having a very difficult few months, that has reduced my interaction on the forums even further than I've already been reduced... Namely, I've been dealing with health issues from reoccurring colds, to a un-diagnosed lump on my left hip I'm still trying to get identified and treated.My step-father is the biggest issue that I could really use some thoughts and prayers on. He had surgery months ago, and since then has been dealing with chronic pain. It hurts him to swallow, to drink/eat, to talk, to do anything. He's lost 70 pounds since January and barely eats anything, and he spends most of his day curled in his chair in pain, hardly moving or talking and it kills me to see him like this and knowing I can do nothing. He has a second opinion doctor that he won't be able to see until May, and I hate to think of what a month more of this is going to do to him in the meantime.On top of that, we're looking to move houses and so that added stress isn't helping me at all, namely due to there being so little available right now. And storm season is starting up, so tornadoes are going to be at threat for the next few months as well.I dunno, it helps to just vent things here a bit. But if you've been wondering where I've been, this is what I've been doing. Hardly done any drawing or painting.I need to finish my Spring exchange, then i'll probably stop participating in exchanges for a while until things look better for me. 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hammer570 Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 I'm not religious, but I'll be sending good thoughts your (and your stepfather's) way! Hope things take a turn for the better, and soon! 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Erifnogard Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 Much love Siri, I hope everything comes out well on all fronts soonest. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NomadZeke Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 Thoughts and prayers your way 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kheprera Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 *giant glompy hugs* Hope things get better for you and your step-father. Maybe see if Second-Opinion doctor can try and get him in on a cancellation? Explain the issue and weight loss and they might help. *fingers crossed* 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pingo Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 Oh Siri, I'm sorry to hear it. I hope that your family and health issues get resolved. You are in my thoughts. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris Palmer Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family. I don't know what your financial/insurance/geographical situation is, but if possible I would try to find a second opinion doctor who can see your step-father sooner. Have you contacted the original surgeon's office? Has he had follow-up visits with him? The same with you, if your not happy with what your current doctor is doing for you, if at all possible, seek out another one. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sirithiliel Posted April 4, 2016 Author Share Posted April 4, 2016 Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family. I don't know what your financial/insurance/geographical situation is, but if possible I would try to find a second opinion doctor who can see your step-father sooner. Have you contacted the original surgeon's office? Has he had follow-up visits with him? The same with you, if your not happy with what your current doctor is doing for you, if at all possible, seek out another one. yes he's had numerous follow up visits to the surgeon, but they can't find the source of the pain 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crowley Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 That's a rough situation. You and yours are in my thoughts. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canuckotter Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 Best wishes, and best of luck. Doing my best to send good vibes your way! 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShadowRaven Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 all my love, thoughts and prayers with you and yours my friend 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morihalda Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 That's really rough, good thoughts going to you and your family! I hope your stresses can clear up in a positive way soon! 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderator Chaoswolf Posted April 4, 2016 Moderator Share Posted April 4, 2016 Positive waves heading to you and yours, i hope things improve for you quickly! 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ub3r_n3rd Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 Sympathy liked. Sending good vibes and hoping that everything gets better for you and the family. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klarg1 Posted April 4, 2016 Share Posted April 4, 2016 I'm so sorry, Siri. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts, hoping for improvement. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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