Moderator Chaoswolf Posted January 19, 2018 Moderator Share Posted January 19, 2018 I'm so sorry to hear it, Siri. My best wishes to you and your family. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sirithiliel Posted January 20, 2018 Author Share Posted January 20, 2018 Sudden change of plans, my aunts and grandparents in El Paso (4 hours away from me) are driving back home tomorrow. So my husband is driving me down tonight and i'm hitching along. He's declining so fast they want to make sure they can see him, and i do too 3 11 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleBluberry Posted January 20, 2018 Share Posted January 20, 2018 Sounds like a wise plan. <hugs> It also sounds like you have an amazing family, and my thoughts are with you. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pezler the Polychromatic Posted January 20, 2018 Share Posted January 20, 2018 That is the wisest course of action. Cherish the time that you have and be with your family. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pingo Posted January 20, 2018 Share Posted January 20, 2018 Go, go and be with your loved ones. My husband's mother went into an unexpected decline a few years ago and we got there just in time to see her. Best wishes to you. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kangaroorex Posted January 20, 2018 Share Posted January 20, 2018 my thoughts go with you. Spend time with the family. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Glitterwolf Posted January 20, 2018 Share Posted January 20, 2018 That's a wise plan. ***All the hugs*** 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thes Hunter Posted January 20, 2018 Share Posted January 20, 2018 On 1/18/2018 at 11:45 AM, Sirithiliel said: i don't even know what to say or what i'd talk about, if i'm being honest. I almost wish he'd just pass peacefuly so he'd stop suffering, but then i feel terrible for even thinking about it It is very normal to feel this way. You want only the best for him. 2 hours ago, Sirithiliel said: Sudden change of plans, my aunts and grandparents in El Paso (4 hours away from me) are driving back home tomorrow. So my husband is driving me down tonight and i'm hitching along. He's declining so fast they want to make sure they can see him, and i do too Safe travels to you. 5 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pcktlnt Posted January 20, 2018 Share Posted January 20, 2018 Safe travels siri. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sirithiliel Posted January 21, 2018 Author Share Posted January 21, 2018 Safely at my aunts, we leave early tomorrow morning sounds like everyone is Of he opinion he is waiting to pass until he sees me. Keeps asking for me. mom texted me today that he had a rough day, searched high and low for keys, kept saying he was leaving, and is barely coherent 12 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Green Eyed Monster Posted January 21, 2018 Share Posted January 21, 2018 May you travel safely. The thoughts, meditations, and prayers of a lot of us travel with you. GEM 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sirithiliel Posted January 22, 2018 Author Share Posted January 22, 2018 Safe at my mothers spending time with family thank you for all the well wishes 11 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jokemeister Posted January 23, 2018 Share Posted January 23, 2018 Sorry to hear but I hope you managed to spend some time with him and got the chance to say goodbye. <HUGS> 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sirithiliel Posted January 23, 2018 Author Share Posted January 23, 2018 He isn’t looking good. It is just hard. He looks awful, he is barely coherent. He can’t write anymore so he literally can’t communicate beyond pointing, nodding, or shaking his head He can’t write either because he isn’t coherent enough to remember how to, or doesn’t have the manual dexterity anymore, or both. I don’t know The cancer has moved to his brain and his kidneys are shutting down. He looks jaundiced tonight I did say good night and I love you to him before going to my borrowed room for the night, and he mouthed it back at me. So right now he seems more coherent 3 10 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderator Darsc Zacal Posted January 23, 2018 Moderator Share Posted January 23, 2018 From what you've described, even though he can't communicate it, you've been a comfort to him. 8 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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